Mulenga Kapwepwe is many things and it can be difficult to know where to start in describing her. She is a cultural activist, born of a famed freedom-fighting family, author, storyteller, artist and co-founder of the Women's History Museum of Zambia, among many other things. We sat down with her to discuss her latest novel ('Perfect Marriage'), traditional Bemba marriage rites, growing up as the daughter of freedom fighter and veteran politician Simon Mwansa Kapwepwe and how she designed her ideal life.